Blogmas Day 8: The Best Gift I’ve Ever Given

One of the best things about the holidays is the memories that come with them. When you’re grieving someone, chances are the memories of the past few holidays is what makes them so painful.

Today, I am sharing a story about the best gift that I have ever given during the Christmas season. That gift was a watch to my mom that I gave her during her last Christmas. I had purchased it from Kohl’s with a ton of coupons, and it ended up being a really good deal.

Now, it was really important to me to get my mom something wonderful for Christmas last year. I had no idea that it would be the last Christmas that we would spend together, of course. However, I am so happy that I was able to get my mom this. As a single mom, she had Christmases where she didn’t really have a lot to open if anything at all. When I was younger, I didn’t realize it. When I first started to work, I began to try to make it up to her.

When I gave her this gift, I can tell that she truly loved it and the thought that was behind it. It was a watch that was two-toned, which is something that she loved because it went with everything that she wore. She had a few trials-toned watches, but never something that is just plain gold and silver.

Making my mom happy was definitely something that made it the best money that I ever spent. She did love this watch and even wore it quite a few times until she passed away. I even had it put on her during her wake. I did end up taking it off of her afterwards though.

Although I don’t really wear watches, this is something of my mom’s that I just can’t part with. It reminds me of that memory, and it reminds me of her, since she loved wearing watches. It also reminds me of our last Christmas together — a memory that I now treasure.

This watch reminds me of that feeling of wanting to do something for my mom. For me, part of the fun of the holidays is giving. My mom was always giving to others — whether it’s myself, her parents, and our dog at the time. One of the things that I have learned from my mother is to give to those you love. It doesn’t have to be material possessions, though. It can mean giving some of your time to spend with them. Or, giving some of your skillset to help someone out.

To me, that is what the holiday season is about.

What is the best gift that you have ever given? Let me know in the comments below.

Blogmas Day #7: My Christmas 2019 Bucket List

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Happy Saturday folks! This is the first time in a while that I am blogging on a Saturday, and I think that it is awesome. I will admit that I was running out of ideas, that is until I stumbled upon this list from The Mini Millionaire, which has 100 plus Blogmas ideas! 

This prompt truly spoke to me in trying to create a fun blogmas season that is varied in posts. And, it also sparked my interest, because this holiday season is going to be a hard year for me since it is the first without my mom. So, giving me something to look forward to, and to create a list of things that I want to do just makes it a bit more fun.

So, here’s my list:

  • Go see the Festival of Lights in New Haven: I’ve been wanting to do this for years. It’s really fun, because you drive around and see really cool holiday lights. There is something about Christmas lights that gets me into the holiday spirit. Therefore, I want to try to head to this this year, so I can try to be a bit more festive.
  • Finish my holiday reads:

Every year, I try to read a few different holiday books, and this year is no different. I did this last year, and I read What Light by Jay Asher. I love reading them, and it definitely helps in terms of getting me into the Christmas mood. I am currently reading We Met In December. Next up, I am working on 10 Blind Dates, which is more of a New Year’s Book, but I definitely want to read it this month.

  • Walk around a Downtown Area with Christmas Lights:

Last year, my boyfriend and I walked around the downtown area of his town, which is lit up with trees and holiday lights. I want to do this again because it was such a great and inexpensive date idea, and this puts me in the holiday spirit. Plus, I can also get my steps in as well, which is always a good thing.

  • Go to the Mall During Christmas Time: Okay, so maybe I am a bit of insane for this one. But, there is something about the mall during the holiday season that puts me in the Christmas mood. It’s an experience, and I recommend you going — even if you’ve already completed your holiday shopping.
  • Bake Cookies:

One thing that I want to do is bake cookies, because Christmas cookies are the absolute best. This year, I want to try to make stuff that my mom used to, because it will feel like my mom is here with me during this holiday season.

  • Watch Christmas Movies: I am terrible at watching movies, so I want to try to watch a few old favorites to get into the holiday spirit. Plus, every year, you have to watch the Charlie Brown Christmas special, am I right?

What is on your holiday bucket list? Let me know in the comments below!

Fashion Friday: My First Poshmark Purchase (Blogmas Day 6)

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I was always skeptical over Poshmark. I wasn’t sure if it was legit, or if the items on it were real.

However, I wanted a Louis Vuitton Mini Pochette — something that is very hard to get if you know anything about Louis Vuitton. I was hunting for it for a while now — to the point where I was hounding it the website hourly. I liked it because it can hold the essentials, because on the weekends, I honestly don’t like carrying a purse.

Then, I decided to check out the used market on eBay and another recommended app, Poshmark.

I ended up finding one on Poshmark on the Damier Ebien Azur canvas. I asked the person who was selling it a lot of questions — and then, I decided to press go.

This was on Saturday. I got it that following Monday. It looked brand new, came in the box, and even had the tag.

Not bad.

Since then, I did make one other purchase on Poshmark. It was something that I ended up returning because it came broken and in the wrong size. Even then, the app made it so simple to do the return, even though the item took a longer time to get back to its original destination.

With that being said, I highly recommend you checking out Poshmark if you’re trying to get high fashion on a low budget. Or, if you just want to get a few good deals. Either or, it’s worth checking out.

Blogmas Day 5: 13 Authors That Have Become An Auto Buy For Me

img_4721As you can tell, I love reading. I love reading on Kindle, I love reading physical books, and I love listening to them via audiobook.

Naturally, I’ve become obsessed with a few authors over the years that have become my favorites. So, here are some authors that I automatically buy without thinking about it whenever they come out with a new novel:

  • Christina Lauren: 

Christina Lauren has become an auto buy for me this past year. I discovered this from my bookstagram account, and I definitely don’t regret it. They definitely are the queens of new adult romance, and I love each and every one of them that I’ve read so far. As you can tell, I am a huge fan of romance novels.

I’ve read Love and Other Words, The Unhoneymooners, Josh and Hazel’s Guide to Not Dating, My Favorite Half Night Stand, and Twice in a Blue Moon. I have a few of them that I have yet to read, but I definitely want to read the rest of their books in the new year.

  • Colleen Hoover: 

Do you like crazy Lifetime movies? Well, Colleen Hoover is that. I’ve only read a few of her novels, but whenever I do read them, I am hooked. All of her novels have a twist in the end that you never see coming. She actually has a new book coming out next week that I have on preorder called Regretting You that I am so excited to read.

  • Sarah Dessen

Sarah Dessen is the queen of young adult literature. I have been reading her novels for several years now, and I’ve read each and every one of her bibliography. I actually even met her a few years ago when For Once and For All came out.

Even though I am no longer in high school, these novels are a sense of nostaglia for me. They always remind me of high school summers. They are so easy to read and well-written, which is why I will always buy a Sarah Dessen novel.

  • Emily Giffin:

Emily Giffin is the reigning queen of chic-lit. Her novels talk about relationships, and their complications. During my senior year of high school, I’ve read Something Borrowed for the first time and I couldn’t even put it down. Since then, I’ve read each and every one of her books — often the week that they come out. Yup, they are that good.

  • Taylor Jenkins Reid:

Taylor Jenkins Reid has such a huge variety of subjects in her bibliography — some romance, and some history. The first book I read was Daisy Jones and the Six, and I knew right then and there that I had to read everything that she ever wrote. There are a few that I still have yet to read, but I know that I will be reading them in the next year.

  • Liv Constantine

The sister duo has only written two books — The Last Mrs. Parrish and The Last Time I Saw You. Both novels are suspenseful thrillers full of twists — up until the very end.

Also, I was lucky enough to meet these two at my local Barnes and Noble, which was very awesome. These two have definitely become my favorites over the past year, and I am so excited to read more.

  • Angie Thomas

Like Liv Constantine, Angie Thomas wrote two books as well — On The Come Up and the Hate U Give, and I love both of them. They were authentic and real — and that’s what I love about them.

  • Becky Albertalli

I discovered Becky Albertalli last year when the movie Love, Simon came out. Since then, I read all of her books. I love the stories, because they are not only swoon worthy young adult romances — still my favorite reads at 25 — but they are authentic to how high school is today. It talks about the journey teens go on if they are trying to figure out their sexuality — and celebrates it. And, I think that’s awesome.

  • Morgan Matson

I discovered Morgan Matson while I worked at the library. Since then, I’ve read all of her novels as well. And, whenever she comes out with new novels, I instantly buy them. Like many of the young adult books I love, many of her novels are romances. But, they often have a deeper twist. For instance, in Amy and Roger’s Epic Detour, it talks about Amy overcoming her fear of driving while she is riding cross country with one of her mother’s friends son. I like it, because it talks about the hard stuff that teens deal with. They are also just well written, which I love.

  • JoJo Moyes

I loved JoJo Moyes since Me Before You. I’ve read the sequel, and knew that I wanted to read the rest of her bibliography. I’ve red a few of them, and they have become some of my favorite books. My goal for the new year is to finish the Me Before You trilogy because I need to know what happens to Lou Clarke.

  • John Green

John Green was one of the most popular authors when I was a freshman in college. Everyone was talking about The Fault In Our Stars. Over the next year, I read all of his books, and then I got Turtles All of the Way Down when it came out.

If you like young adult literature, you love John Green. And there is a reason for that. His characters are quirky, but they are real. His novels are classics, and I will forever be a ran. Okay? Okay.

  • Sophie Kinsella:

Sophie Kinsella is one of the best romance writers that I’ve ever read. Her novels are the best to read when you’re in a bad mood, because they are fun, and they always have a happy ending. Kind of like a Hallmark Movie, but much better. She’s written the Shopaholic series, as well as several romance reads and a young adult novel. She’s also written novels under the name Madeline Wickham, which I’ve only read one of her novels under that name. However, I love her novels and they will continue to be favorites of mine.

  • Liane Moriarty 

I found Big Little Lies at TJ Maxx, and once I started to read the book, I couldn’t put it down. It wasn’t long before I’ve read all of her books.

There is always some sort of twist with Liane Moriarty books. Her characters have several layers to them, and as you go on, you learn more and more about them. Once you think the story is going one way, it goes another. It definitely makes you not want to stop reading until you’ve reached the last page.

Which authors are your favorites? Let me know in the comments below!

 

Better Late Than Never, Right? Guess Who Is Joining Blogmas?!

So I never thought that Blogmas was a thing until I started watching vloggers regularly. They do a thing called Vlogmas. And, I thought why isn’t there anything for bloggers? This would be perfect for my blog!

Today, I decided to see if that was a thing. And, it was! And, other than Monday, I’ve blogged daily.

So, this is my official announcement: I am officially doing Blogmas!

What is Blogmas, you may ask?

Blogmas is basically a challenge that you blog every day. Or, have blog posts scheduled every day if you’re like me and write a ton of posts over the weekend to save time.

And, what can you expect?

Well, if you’ve read this blog you know that I write a little bit of everything. So, stay tuned for posts about books, mental health, places to eat in my state, and so much more! I even plan to use the weekends to include posts about Christmas to help you get into the holiday spirit.

So, stay tuned for my Blogmas posts! If you haven’t already, be sure to give my Facebook Page a like and follow my Instagram to stay tuned to all of my Blogmas posts and thereafter!

What I Love Wednesday: December 4th

Happy Hump Day! In just three short weeks, it will be Christmas. It’s a scary thought to think about when you think about it. However, I am in the phase now where I am just working on getting my handmade gifts made, and then I wrap. Maybe that will be a project for next weekend, but we’ll see.

Anyways, here’s what I am loving this week:

  • Bath and Body Works Pumpkin Handcream:

I recently finished my stress relief Bath and Body Works hand cream, and I began to use this one. I like this one because it reminds me of cupcakes — something that definitely makes me happy. Now that the temperatures are getting colder, I am sure that I am going to be going through it pretty quickly. Bath and Body Works has an amazing selection of lotion, and I like this cream because it’s smaller than my mini lotion I had originally.

  • Gilmore Girls:

I’ve been watching UP TV’s Gilmore The Merrier, and I was able to rewatch this show once again. Gilmore Girls has a huge sentimental value for me as it was one of the shows that my mom and I watched together all of the time. Since she died, I have not been able to watch it. Sure, it was emotional to watch the show, as it was the first time since she died that I was able to watch it, but I loved watching it during the week-long marathon. Now, I am pretty sure that I will watch some of my favorite episodes once again.

  • The Great Christmas Light Fight: 

For me, this is one of my favorite things to watch during the holiday season. It always manages to put me in the holiday spirit, and I love seeing all of the houses lit up with their holiday lights.

  • Rae Dunn Christmas Mug: 

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I am a huge fan of Rae Dunn. I have a ton of mugs, and I am always looking for the holiday collection. When I was buying Lucy’s coat, I saw this red mug on the way to the cash register. Well, actually my boyfriend picked it out. Anyways, I love it because it puts me into the Christmas spirit and it holds nearly everything that I need to comfortably. I am so happy to add this to my collection.

  • Current Reads: 

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This has been on quite few weeks, and for good reason! I’ve been reading a lot of great books. This past week, I read What If It’s Us and Christmas Shopaholic. Both books were great, and I’m now reading We Met In December.

Feeling A Bit Like Scrouge? Here Are Some Ways to Get Into the Holiday Spirit

Happy holidays! Now that December is in full swing, it’s official. The holiday season is among us. However, if you’re feeling a bit like me this year, you’re probably not in the holiday spirit. So, here are some fun ways to get into the Christmas spirit and truly celebrate the most wonderful time of the year.

  • Read holiday books:

I love reading a ton of holiday/Christmas time books this year. My personal favorites are One Day In December, What Light, and Let It Snow. I am currently reading Christmas Shopaholic by Sophie Kinsella. Reading holiday themed books are awesome, because it gets you in the holiday spirit, and promotes self care by getting you to read. That is, if you like reading as much as I do.

  • Eat holiday treats:

The best part about the holidays is of course the food. Part of their appeal is of course the fact that they are only out this time of year. So, indulge in your favorite treats. Drink a peppermint mocha. Eat a ton of holiday cookies. After all, calories don’t count during the holiday season.

  • Drink out of Christmas mugs:

I love Christmas themed mugs. I have a huge collection of them, and every time I use them, I am instantly put into a good mood. So, break out your favorite Christmas themed mug. Or, if you don’t have one, head over to your local TJ Maxx and pick one up.

  • Watch holiday movies/shows:

Finally, a simple way to get psyched for the holidays is just to watch a good ol’ holiday movie. Whether it’s Charlie Brown or a Hallmark movie, there is something for everyone. So, put on your PJs, pop some popcorn, and make yourself a cup of hot cocoa. Nothing screams holidays like curling up and just relaxing.

These are some things that have worked for me in past holiday seasons. I hope they work for you.

November Reading Wrap Up

As many of you know, I am an avid reader. Recently, I came up with the idea of posting a monthly list of what I read for each month, along with a rating. I love blogging about books, so I thought that this would be something different to blog about. So, without further a due, here’s what I read this month:

  • From Twinkle, With Love: Four out of Five Stars
  • Verity by Colleen Hoover: Five out of Five Stars
  • The Grace Year by Kim Liggett: Three out of Five Stars
  • Twice in a Blue Moon by Christina Lauren: Five out of Five Stars
  • Get a Life, Chloe Brown by Talia Hibbert: Five out of Five Stars
  • When the Stars Lead to You by Ronni Davis: Five out of Five Stars
  • What If It’s Us by Becky Albertalli and Adam Silvera: Five out of Five Stars

This month is considered a slow reading month for me, but I am hoping to finish the year off with a few more great reads. What did you read this month that was awesome? Let me know in the comments below.

What I’m Thankful For This Year

Happy Thanksgiving folks! This Thanksgiving is a little different than Thanksgivings in the past as it’s the first without my mom. However, there are a lot of things that I do have to be thankful for this year. Here is what they are:

  • My mom: 

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Okay so this one is a weird one, because my mom passed away in February. However, I am thankful for all of the good memories that we did get to share together. I am also grateful for the fact that as a single mom, she always made sure that I had lights, heat and running water. She also made sure that I had a working car and that I graduated college without the burden of student loans — something that I am still grateful for today. Although it’s the first Thanksgiving without her, I still remember all of the good memories of her.

  • My Boyfriend: 

Going through the stages of grief is definitely one that’s not easy and is isolating. It is also overwhelming and sends me on an emotional rollercoaster everyday. I am going to be honest, it’s not something that many people would want to stand by me.

What I am even more grateful for is all that he does for me and Lucy. He has been so helpful with taking care of Lucy during the day by walking her, and taking her out. He also helps me with errands, and makes sure that if I need support or someone to talk to, I get it. I don’t like to swoon, but I think that I am a pretty lucky girl to have him in my life.

  • Lucy:

A little over two months ago, I adopted a crazy little beagle/Jack Russell Terrier mix named Lucy. In the past two months, she has definitely become my best pal. When I lost my dog Maggie last year, I never thought that I would get another dog. That became true when my mom died.

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As a dog lover, not having a dog was hard on me. Getting Lucy was one of the best things that ever happened to me because she helps me feel less lonely and she always manages to make me feel loved. I know that I rescued her, but in our situation, it’s a who rescued who kind of situation.

  • Friends:

This year, I have figured out who my true friends are, and am so thankful for the endless support that I have received since my mother’s death. I got the opportunity to reconnect with several old friends and strengthened some. I got to see a lot of my friends for both Friendsgiving, as well as my 25th birthday — something that I’m really grateful for.

  • Family:

This year, I’ve needed the support of my family more than ever. I was lucky to strengthen and reconnect with many of my family members at the time of my mother’s death. This makes me feel grateful, because I know I have people to turn to in my time of need.

  • Books:

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I am so grateful to have the opportunity to have as many books as I have at my disposal. Reading has become something that helps me destress during long days, and to learn something new. Furthermore, reading is something that changed my life because it gives me the skills to grow into a stronger person thanks to the many self help books that I read this year.

What are you thankful for? Please let me know in the comments below.

What I Love Wednesday: November 27th

It is the night before Thanksgiving and many of you reading this are home with family or on your way home to be with family. Meanwhile, I plan to spend the night watching It’s The Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown with my real life beagle, Lucy. However, I am looking forward to sharing some of the things that I am loving this week:

Garnier Skin Active Water Rose 24 Hour Moisture Cream:

I recently tried out this lotion after reading about it in Cosmo! magazine, and I really like it. The winter has taken its toll on my skin, and it caused me to have dry skin. However, I can never find a cream that works for me. Enter this in. I love how it makes my skin a lot more moisturized, and less dry. Furthermore, it also keeps my skin from feeling too oily – something that I really like.

Disney Plus: 

Everyone seems to love Disney Plus, and I am a part of that. I love having classic Disney Channel shows and movies, as well as classic Disney movies at my disposal. Needless to say, I’ve been watching this a ton to unwind. Enter nostalgia.

David’s Tea: 

I have been making more and more teas at home lately as a way to save money and time. I have been drinking a lot of the iced tea, the calming teas, and the seasonal ones such as the Gingerbread Blondie or the Peppermint. In addition to saving money, it also has a lot less sugar and calories than a pumpkin spiced latte.

Good As Hell by Lizzo: 

This song has been my jam lately. It is definitely one of those tunes that seems to put me in a good mood. Of course, it easily gets stuck in my head. However, this song is awesome, and I highly recommend that you listen to it.

Recent Reads: 

I have been reading a lot of really good books lately. I read Get A Life Chloe Brown and When The Stars Lead to You, both of which were Book of the Month picks. I’m currently What If It’s Us and that’s definitely one that I am enjoying reading. And, after a reading slump, this is a welcome change.