Blogtober Day 30: How to Succeed At NanoWriMo

In a few days, it will be National Novel Writing Month, also known as NanoWriMo. If you’re not familiar with it, basically NanoWriMo is a month of insane novel writing. The goal is to write 50,000 words in the span of 30 days. It’s crazy, yeah I know. I’ve honestly only managed to complete it once in my life. The closest I’ve ever truly gotten was to 30,000 otherwise. 

This year, I do plan to participate simply for fun. I have not written fiction in years, so I am using this as a chance to actually write a novel and get back into it. I will reveal what I end up writing in an upcoming blog post.

That being said, many of us are interested in doing NanoWriMo, whether it’s because you finally want to write that novel you’ve been putting off for years, or because you want to try something different. That being said, here are some tips to help you reach success: 

Outline: 

I am the worst at this, but prepare an outline for your novel in the days leading up to writing. That way, you have an idea of where the story is intended to go, and what happens when. It’s a great way to lead yourself on the path of success, because all you have to do is write the story.

Don’t Edit. Just Write: 

Part of writing a novel is simply the fear that it has to be perfect on the first try. But, let me ask you this: when was the last time that we got everything right on the first go around? That said, just write the novel. You can always go back to editing it at a later date.

Make Time Each Day to Write: 

Whether it’s while you’re drinking your morning coffee or right before bed, write daily. The NanoWriMo website has little word markers that help you stay on track, however, I don’t think those should be taken as seriously. Some days you’re going to want to write 1,000 words, while others you might write 3,000. Honestly, any writing in my opinion is better than no writing.

Use Weekends: 

Try to use weekends to catch up on your writing if you’re not busy with other plans. Even an hour of writing is so much better than nothing. 

Don’t Be Too Hard On Yourself: 

I want to be honest here. I am never completely diligent with NanoWriMo. Also, life sometimes happens. During college, I would always be way too busy to even make it past 10,000 words. For me, I just do the best I can and go from there. 

Do Word Sprints: 

I follow the NanoWriMo word sprints, and they are amazing to help get your word goal up. A word sprint is basically when you write as much as you can during a certain amount of time. I’ve gotten anywhere between 300 to almost a thousand words done during that time, and I highly credit doing them as why I managed to complete NanoWriMo in 2015. Even if you’re able to do a few a day, it definitely helps bulk up your word count. 

Take Breaks: 

Okay, so it’s counterintuitive to stop writing when trying to cram so many words into one month, am I right? However, I think it’s important to get up, enjoy the fresh air, and stretch as well. Make sure you eat meals. Make sure you enjoy Thanksgiving, whatever that may mean for you this year. Just as it’s important to write a novel, it’s important to take breaks as well. 

Create A Playlist: 

Anyone notice how much more you get done whenever you listen to music? Create a writing playlist of songs to get you inspired. And, play it everytime that you sit to write. Trust me, it helps a lot. 

So have you participated in NanoWriMo before? If so, what are your tips for success? 

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Blogtober Day 31: What I Love About Halloween

Happy Halloween and the last day of Blogtober! I am amazed that I have blogged straight for 33 days, and am excited to announce that I will be taking a bit of a blogging break to breathe. But, before I do, I would like to share all of the things I love about Halloween:

  • Thriller Novels: I am obsessed with thriller novels and save them all for this time of year. I love thrillers because when they are done right, you literally can not put them down. This month, I picked up so many great books that I will soon be sharing in a reading wrap up, but if you’re looking for some good ones, check out anything by Liv Constantine, The Woman In the Window by A.J. Finn, or The Guest List by Lucy Foley.
  • Treats: From Halloween candy to those Pillsbury cookies, Halloween for me is all about treats. What can I say? I have a sweet tooth, so I can’t resist.
  • Spooky Movies: Halloween is the best time of year to binge watch some of the classics: Hocus Pocus, The Nightmare Before Christmas, and my all-time favorite, the Peanuts Halloween Special. If you don’t have any plans tonight, why don’t you curl up with some of these moves, and some treats? Perfect evening if you ask me.
  • Having Fun: For me, Halloween is all about having fun. So, don’t mind me if I have kitty ears or wear a cute shirt.

What do you love about Halloween? Let me know in the comments below.

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Blogtober Day 29: Local Bookstores Need Our Help More Than Ever Before

There is something that is magical about stepping into a bookstore, especially the local ones. For booklovers like myself, it’s a place where nothing can go wrong and you can just indulge in your love for reading. 

However, the pandemic has changed the way that we shop for books, like it has for most things. 

With the rise of Amazon, it is easier now more than ever before to get a book. All readers have to do is simply type the title in, and it will arrive at your doorstep in a few days. This is easy yes. But, this has hurt the local bookseller industry in more ways than ever predicted. 

On Friday, the owner of the Strand Bookstore in New York City took to social media on Friday to let followers know that revenues for the beloved store were down 70 percent and asked for help. And, if you are a booklover, you know that the Strand is a booklover’s heaven. 

According to a New York Times Article entitled The Strand Calls for Help and Book Lovers Answer, that cry for help boosted business tremendously. The article states that there were 100,000 online orders on Saturday. The article then went onto state that Saturday was the best day in October in the flagship store, and the best day that the Upper West Side branch ever had. 

However, many other independent booksellers were not so lucky. The article also reported that more than one independent bookstore has closed every week since the pandemic began. 

Of course, book sales have gone up in 2020. Since more readers are home, more readers are reading more books. But, as I said earlier, they are probably purchasing online. Which makes sense, if you’re not leaving the house as much as you used to. Due to the demand of online book sales, more and more independent booksellers have since converted online as well in the efforts to keep their businesses afloat during the pandemic. 

So, what can readers do? 

Like most things this holiday season, buy local. And, if you want a book, refrain from buying it from Target and Amazon, and instead buy it online if you can’t make the trip. 

In Connecticut, we have a huge variety of local booksellers, including: Hickory Stick Bookstore in Washington, R.J. Julia in Madison and Middletown, and Elm Street Books in New Canaan. All of these have the ability to ship to your door – just like Amazon does. 

Furthermore, another way to help out is simply ask for giftcards to your favorite local store. This is a booklover’s dream, simply because you can get whatever book you want. 

Do you have an e-reader? 

There is so many other ways to support local bookshops as well. You can simply buy their merchandise as gifts, and for yourself. 

I am a believer that any little bit helps. 

As we prepare to enter in the 2020 holiday season, I highly recommend that you do what you can to support these local bookstores however you can. 

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Blogtober Day 28: What I Love Wednesday October 28th

Happy Wednesday everyone! We are reaching the end of Blogtober, and as November approaches, I am contemplating doing NanoWriMo. That being said, I am still looking forward to having a spooky weekend filled with sugar and Charlie Brown Christmas specials. This week, I have a variety of favorites to share with you. So, without further adue, here are my favorites:

Little Voice:

I’ve been watching this show since the middle of last week, and I have been obsessed. It is on Apple TV Plus, and is about a singer-songwriter Bess, who is just trying to make it. Bess battles trying to pay the rent with her family issues as well, as her father is a musician as well, and her brother has special needs. What is really cool about the show is that the series features so many great songs. And, it was produced by Sara Bareilles, which is pretty cool.

Procreate:

I am going to preface this by saying that I am not the most artistic person that you’ll ever meet. However, I am really enjoying Procreate. I downloaded it last week, and started sketching. I instantly felt relaxed. What I love about the app is that there are so many different options for you to sketch, paint, do calligraphy and more. Like I said, I am not the most artistic, but I just found it relaxing to just sit there and draw.

S.V. Decker Chain Necklace:

The paperclip chain necklaces have been all of the rage this fall. Last week, I picked up this chain and I’ve been obsessed with it. I got a 16 inch chain, and have been pairing it with my sterling silver good luck necklace or my name necklace I’ve purchased from Caitlyn Minimalist. What is cool about this necklace is that it is so versatile. You can wear it layered, like I mentioned, or you can wear it by itself.

Shop Luv Mimi Cozy Babe Set:

Pairing the sweater with a pair of jeans!

I recently purchased this set, and even though I don’t wear it together, it’s extremely comfortable. I wore the shirt with jeans, and the pants with a random sweatshirt. However, what I really love is that I can also pair it with leggings, since the set does run big.

All comfort aside, it’s really great for fall because it’s neutral and keeps you warm on chilly mornings. Furthermore, the quality is excellent and absolutely worth the $65 price tag.

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Blogtober Day 27: Easy Pumpkin Cookies

During quarantine, chocolate chip banana bread was all of the rage. Now, as we get into fall, pumpkin bread has become the new “it” bread. For some odd reason, I couldn’t find pumpkin bread mix at the grocery store. So, I picked up cookie mix instead. I decided to add a little something extra to the mix by adding chocolate chips, and let me tell you, they turned out amazing. So, I wanted to share with you this easy way to spice up a mix, and enjoy some delicious fall cookies – perfect for Thanksgiving, Halloween, or even if you just want some cookies around the house.

What you need:

  • 1 Bag of Chocolate Chips
  • 1 Packet of Pumpkin Bread Mix (and whatever you need to make the cookies). I use the Betty Crocker Pumpkin cookie mix

Directions:

1. Prepare cookie mix as instructed on the package.

2. When mix is ready to be placed, add chocolate chips.

3. Mix.

4. Make cookies into balls, and place them on a cookie sheet.

5. Bake as instructed on the package.

6. Let cookies cool. Enjoy!

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Women Who Work: Author Nicole Zelniker

It seems like Nicole Zelniker has done a little bit of everything. A graduate of Columbia University, Zelniker is a photographer, journalist and a published author of Mixed, Last Dance, and Letters I’ll Never Send, which will be published very soon. Her work has been featured in several publications, including URevolution, USA Today, and the Nasiona.

I got the chance to chat with Zelniker all about writing, her latest book, and so much more. And, after chatting with her, I did order one of her books to read on my Kindle, and am so excited to check it out.

Author, photographer, and journalist Nicole Zelniker. Photo Credit: Leah Whetten-Goldstein

First off, tell me a little about yourself.

I’m a writer (obviously), both fiction and journalism. I’m also an activist and hope to communicate that in my writing, whether it’s through introducing new ideas or just challenging stigmas and ideas of what characters should look like, if that makes sense. In Letters, for example, the main character deals with mental illness in a way that hopefully challenges stigmas around depression and anxiety. Other than that, I’m a vegan, Gryffindor, and sarcasm queen.

What was your inspiration for your later novel, Letters I’ll Never Send?

It started with writing actual letters, honestly. I didn’t really know yet how these characters came together, but it was clear that whoever it was writing these letters (later my main character) had a lot she was dealing with. Everything just kind of fell into place after that.

How was this novel different from writing your other two?

Letters is my first novel. My previous book, Last Dance, is a book of short stories, and my first book, Mixed, is non-fiction. So it was a different type of book, but similar in tone and style, especially to Last Dance. This was also the first book I wrote in its entirety that I hadn’t started in college or grad school, so this was the first time I didn’t have a professor guiding me through the first part of the process.

Has the pandemic affected anything about the process of writing or publishing a book?

It hasn’t affected my process, necessarily, but it’s definitely changed the way I think about the publishing process. I can’t do a reading or attend any in-person book festival, so I’ve had to get creative about how to market Letters.

How did you get started writing?

I feel like I’ve always been writing, honestly. Like, five-year-old me was really into writing and illustrating her own stories, even if neither the words nor the pictures were particularly good. I didn’t really consider publishing though until after undergrad, when I had my first short stories and poems published in literary magazines.

What is your process of writing a novel/short story, if you have one?

It’s very all over the place. For a novel, I’ll write whichever part I feel strongly about writing at the moment, and fill in the little details or moments later. With short stories, it’s more linear because there’s less content. The only thing I write are the moments I feel strongly about. But of course, with publishing a book of short stories, it’s a similar process of putting things together toward the end.

In your experience, what is the difference between writing fiction pieces versus nonfiction/journalism articles?

The biggest difference is that with journalism, I do a lot more interviews with real people. But fiction still requires research and dedication to getting the story right, even if the characters aren’t real people. The main character’s friend, for example, has leukemia, so I did a lot of research to get the medical component right.

Who are your writer inspirations?

Oh, so many! Margaret Atwood, Jhumpa Lahiri, Toni Morrison, Lisa See, and Amy Tan are just some of them.

What are you currently reading?

I just finished The Underground Railroad by Coleson Whitehead. Four years later, but still, incredible.

Finally, do you have any advice for those who want to enter the publishing industry?
Keep going! I had about 100 rejections from small publishers and agents before finding a home with Atmosphere Press (they also published Last Dance). That, and write what you’d want to read. If you enjoy your work, someone else will, too.

If you’re interested in Nicole’s books (including when Letters I’ll Never Send will be coming out) be sure to follower her on Twitter and on Instagram. Both Mixed and Last Dance are available on Barnes and Noble and Amazon as well.

Blogtober Day 25: October Amazon Favorites

It’s no secret on here that I’ve been obsessing over Amazon as of late and have been scoring amazing deals thanks to Prime Day and just in general. Therefore, I decided to make a monthly feature on my blog of all of the things I love on Amazon to share with you all. So, here are some of my favorites this month:

Kindle Oasis: This was the best Prime Day purchase ever. I got $70 off of it, and it is honestly the best e-reader that I have to date. What I love about it is that it is so comfortable to hold, the warm light feature, and how crisp the display looks while reading on the device. I’ve only read one book on it, but I can already tell that it is worth the money.

Waffle Shirt: Catherine June inspired this purchase, and it is honestly one of the most comfy shirts I purchased to date online. I purchased the plum color, and it’s gorgeous with leggings and jeans. I did get the extra-large, and it fits oversized enough where it covers me, but doesn’t wash me out. If you’re looking for a comfy and warm shirt, than this one is great.

Enamel Tile Bracelet: I saw this on Moriah Robinson’s YouTube channel, and I am so obsessed with it. I’ve mentioned it in this week’s What I Love Wednesday, and I am still loving this bracelet today. I have the gold and white one, which works wonderfully for mixing metals since I flip flop from silver to gold to rose gold. I really love this for anyone, and this will make a wonderful gift.

Gallon Water Bottle: One of the things that I struggle with is drinking enough water. I purchased this gallon water bottle because not only does it hold more than enough water to get me through the work day, it also motivates me to drink it. Half of the time, I honestly don’t, but it’s something to aspire to.

Phone/Watch Chargestand: They had this stand on sale during Prime Day and I actually purchased one for myself and one for my boyfriend. I put them up on our nightstand to help reduce clutter, and it was honestly the best thing I ever did. I like it that I can leave my Apple Watch charging on it all night, and that I have a place to put my phone as well. You can charge your Airpods on this as well, which is really cool. I do want to point out that this does not support wireless charging, which is honestly fine with me because I don’t care to do wireless charging at this stage of my phone’s life. I honestly really am enjoying this purchase, and can see myself getting one to use as a phone stand at the office as well.

iPhone 11 Pro Cases: I am obsessed with these phone cases. I got one prior to Prime Day, and two more on that day since they were only $6. These cases have everything that I love in a phone case. First, it protects it extremely well. Let me tell you, I’ve dropped my phone with this on it so many times, only for it to be just fine. Secondly, it also is a cute case. I have the two marble prints and am currently using the leopard print ones.

So, those are my Amazon favorites for the month. Be sure to stay tuned to check out next month’s favorites.

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Blogtober Day 24: Boyfriend Gift Guide

Let’s face it, folks. Holiday shopping season is here. I have already completed half of my shopping, so I think that I am doing well for myself. That said, I want to talk to you about the hardest person that is on my list – my boyfriend. For me, I always have the hardest time picking out gifts for him. This is especially true as the years went on, because I feel like I have already gotten him something like that, and I need to venture out into new territory. However, I’ve figured out a few great ideas for you to gift your special guy this holiday season – whether you’ve been together for a month, a year or many years. Trust me, he’ll love it.

Amazon Gift Card:

It seems as though everyone is shopping on Amazon more than ever before. What I like about giving Amazon gift cards is that it’s pretty much an easy way to give someone something that they love. I mean seriously. You can find anything pretty much on Amazon. Therefore, giving him this giftcard is a way to put some money towards something that he will love.

Sports/Music Merch:

My boyfriend loves the Red Sox and the Browns. Needless to say, it’s become a bit of a go-to to give him something with their logos/colors on them. That said, if there is a band, a television show, team, or anything that your guy loves, I am pretty sure you can find something with it on it.

Gift Card to His Favorite Place:

This is a great option to couples who have just started dating. If there is a place that he gets his morning coffee, why not get him a gift card? Or, if he has a regular lunch spot, why not buy a gift card there? This is a great idea, because it not only shows that you listen, but it’s guaranteed to be something that he enjoys.

Kindle/tech:

If your boyfriend likes to read, why not buy him an e-reader? Or, if he likes to listen to music, why not get him a smart speaker or a pair of headphones? Or, if he wears an Apple Watch, why not get him a band? There are so many different things you can do with this depending on the person, and trust me, he will love it.

Water Bottles:

I don’t know about you, but I always think that these are a great gift for anyone because hydration is really important!

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Blogtober Day 23: Ways To Take Yourself on A Date

Whether you’re single or in a relationship, we all need time for ourselves. One of the things that I learned before getting into a relationship is that you need to get used to taking time out to take you on a date, and make the time for yourself to do so. For me, it’s the ultimate form of self care.

Now, it’s not as fancy as I’m trying to make it sound. It can be a variety of things. That said, here are some great ways to take time out for you.

  • Go out for a mani/pedi: This might be hard to do during the current pandemic, but getting your nails done is the ultimate way to relax and make time for you.
  • Go to an event that you enjoy: Sometimes, there are events that you can’t find someone to go with you, whether it’s because no one is free or because they aren’t interested. However, instead of not going, why not go by yourself? I have gone to so many book signings by myself and it honestly is the best. It puts you in the best mood because you are doing something you enjoy, and you may just meet some cool people.
  • Grab a coffee: Prior to COVID, I would bring my e-reader to a coffee shop and sit and read. Now, I make a latte with my Nespresso. Whatever the case may be, grab a coffee and just chill.
  • Go shopping: Every now and then, we all can use a solo shopping trip — whether it’s from Target or to the mall. Therefore, why not make it a day? Get some lunch. Grab a Starbucks drink. Whatever the case may be, just going out and treating yourself is honestly the best.
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Blogtober Day 22: 5 Amazing Places in New Haven County To Hike This Fall Season

I love hiking especially in the fall. One of my favorite parts about living in Connecticut is the fact that we have the fall foliage this time of year. And, let’s be honest — Connecticut has so many different and unique places to enjoy that foliage. Since the pandemic, I’ve been really trying to do a lot more walking and hiking.

Today, I am talking about some great places for anyone in the New Haven, Connecticut area to hike. I want to preface it by saying that it doesn’t account for every place that you can hike in the area. These are just the places that I enjoy and want to share with you.

Sleeping Giant State Park in Hamden:

This park has been my go-to for years. Hamden is my hometown, and I love hiking this trail. Now, I have never hiked this during the fall, but this trail is amazing to hike during all seasons.

Osborndale State Park in Derby:

I recently discovered this while waiting for my car to be fixed. This place is extremely gorgeous. It has a beautiful lake, but also a lot of space to hold events. I haven’t really explored it, but it’s definitely a great place to visit.

Hubbard Park in Meriden:

I love this park, but like Sleeping Giant, I have not visited this park in the fall, but when I did, it was gorgeous. What I love about this spot is that you have a ton of great views, and then you can take a trail to Castle Craig. I highly recommend checking it out.

Eisenhower Park in Milford:

I really love this park in the fall. I have hiked it recently and loved exploring. It is a great place to see foliage, and go for a fall walk. And, if you live in Milford, the dog park is right next store.

East Rock Park in New Haven:

Last but not least, I wanted to shoutout my favorite park in the area. I love East Rock because the summit is absolutely amazing, because of the view. You can actually see up to Long Island Sound, which is incredible — especially with the fall colors.

So, these are some great places to hike in New Haven county. Where is your favorite place to hike?

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