Blogtober Day 28: What I Love Wednesday October 28th

Happy Wednesday everyone! We are reaching the end of Blogtober, and as November approaches, I am contemplating doing NanoWriMo. That being said, I am still looking forward to having a spooky weekend filled with sugar and Charlie Brown Christmas specials. This week, I have a variety of favorites to share with you. So, without further adue, here are my favorites:

Little Voice:

I’ve been watching this show since the middle of last week, and I have been obsessed. It is on Apple TV Plus, and is about a singer-songwriter Bess, who is just trying to make it. Bess battles trying to pay the rent with her family issues as well, as her father is a musician as well, and her brother has special needs. What is really cool about the show is that the series features so many great songs. And, it was produced by Sara Bareilles, which is pretty cool.

Procreate:

I am going to preface this by saying that I am not the most artistic person that you’ll ever meet. However, I am really enjoying Procreate. I downloaded it last week, and started sketching. I instantly felt relaxed. What I love about the app is that there are so many different options for you to sketch, paint, do calligraphy and more. Like I said, I am not the most artistic, but I just found it relaxing to just sit there and draw.

S.V. Decker Chain Necklace:

The paperclip chain necklaces have been all of the rage this fall. Last week, I picked up this chain and I’ve been obsessed with it. I got a 16 inch chain, and have been pairing it with my sterling silver good luck necklace or my name necklace I’ve purchased from Caitlyn Minimalist. What is cool about this necklace is that it is so versatile. You can wear it layered, like I mentioned, or you can wear it by itself.

Shop Luv Mimi Cozy Babe Set:

Pairing the sweater with a pair of jeans!

I recently purchased this set, and even though I don’t wear it together, it’s extremely comfortable. I wore the shirt with jeans, and the pants with a random sweatshirt. However, what I really love is that I can also pair it with leggings, since the set does run big.

All comfort aside, it’s really great for fall because it’s neutral and keeps you warm on chilly mornings. Furthermore, the quality is excellent and absolutely worth the $65 price tag.

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Blogtober Day 27: Easy Pumpkin Cookies

During quarantine, chocolate chip banana bread was all of the rage. Now, as we get into fall, pumpkin bread has become the new “it” bread. For some odd reason, I couldn’t find pumpkin bread mix at the grocery store. So, I picked up cookie mix instead. I decided to add a little something extra to the mix by adding chocolate chips, and let me tell you, they turned out amazing. So, I wanted to share with you this easy way to spice up a mix, and enjoy some delicious fall cookies – perfect for Thanksgiving, Halloween, or even if you just want some cookies around the house.

What you need:

  • 1 Bag of Chocolate Chips
  • 1 Packet of Pumpkin Bread Mix (and whatever you need to make the cookies). I use the Betty Crocker Pumpkin cookie mix

Directions:

1. Prepare cookie mix as instructed on the package.

2. When mix is ready to be placed, add chocolate chips.

3. Mix.

4. Make cookies into balls, and place them on a cookie sheet.

5. Bake as instructed on the package.

6. Let cookies cool. Enjoy!

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Women Who Work: Author Nicole Zelniker

It seems like Nicole Zelniker has done a little bit of everything. A graduate of Columbia University, Zelniker is a photographer, journalist and a published author of Mixed, Last Dance, and Letters I’ll Never Send, which will be published very soon. Her work has been featured in several publications, including URevolution, USA Today, and the Nasiona.

I got the chance to chat with Zelniker all about writing, her latest book, and so much more. And, after chatting with her, I did order one of her books to read on my Kindle, and am so excited to check it out.

Author, photographer, and journalist Nicole Zelniker. Photo Credit: Leah Whetten-Goldstein

First off, tell me a little about yourself.

I’m a writer (obviously), both fiction and journalism. I’m also an activist and hope to communicate that in my writing, whether it’s through introducing new ideas or just challenging stigmas and ideas of what characters should look like, if that makes sense. In Letters, for example, the main character deals with mental illness in a way that hopefully challenges stigmas around depression and anxiety. Other than that, I’m a vegan, Gryffindor, and sarcasm queen.

What was your inspiration for your later novel, Letters I’ll Never Send?

It started with writing actual letters, honestly. I didn’t really know yet how these characters came together, but it was clear that whoever it was writing these letters (later my main character) had a lot she was dealing with. Everything just kind of fell into place after that.

How was this novel different from writing your other two?

Letters is my first novel. My previous book, Last Dance, is a book of short stories, and my first book, Mixed, is non-fiction. So it was a different type of book, but similar in tone and style, especially to Last Dance. This was also the first book I wrote in its entirety that I hadn’t started in college or grad school, so this was the first time I didn’t have a professor guiding me through the first part of the process.

Has the pandemic affected anything about the process of writing or publishing a book?

It hasn’t affected my process, necessarily, but it’s definitely changed the way I think about the publishing process. I can’t do a reading or attend any in-person book festival, so I’ve had to get creative about how to market Letters.

How did you get started writing?

I feel like I’ve always been writing, honestly. Like, five-year-old me was really into writing and illustrating her own stories, even if neither the words nor the pictures were particularly good. I didn’t really consider publishing though until after undergrad, when I had my first short stories and poems published in literary magazines.

What is your process of writing a novel/short story, if you have one?

It’s very all over the place. For a novel, I’ll write whichever part I feel strongly about writing at the moment, and fill in the little details or moments later. With short stories, it’s more linear because there’s less content. The only thing I write are the moments I feel strongly about. But of course, with publishing a book of short stories, it’s a similar process of putting things together toward the end.

In your experience, what is the difference between writing fiction pieces versus nonfiction/journalism articles?

The biggest difference is that with journalism, I do a lot more interviews with real people. But fiction still requires research and dedication to getting the story right, even if the characters aren’t real people. The main character’s friend, for example, has leukemia, so I did a lot of research to get the medical component right.

Who are your writer inspirations?

Oh, so many! Margaret Atwood, Jhumpa Lahiri, Toni Morrison, Lisa See, and Amy Tan are just some of them.

What are you currently reading?

I just finished The Underground Railroad by Coleson Whitehead. Four years later, but still, incredible.

Finally, do you have any advice for those who want to enter the publishing industry?
Keep going! I had about 100 rejections from small publishers and agents before finding a home with Atmosphere Press (they also published Last Dance). That, and write what you’d want to read. If you enjoy your work, someone else will, too.

If you’re interested in Nicole’s books (including when Letters I’ll Never Send will be coming out) be sure to follower her on Twitter and on Instagram. Both Mixed and Last Dance are available on Barnes and Noble and Amazon as well.

Blogtober Day 25: October Amazon Favorites

It’s no secret on here that I’ve been obsessing over Amazon as of late and have been scoring amazing deals thanks to Prime Day and just in general. Therefore, I decided to make a monthly feature on my blog of all of the things I love on Amazon to share with you all. So, here are some of my favorites this month:

Kindle Oasis: This was the best Prime Day purchase ever. I got $70 off of it, and it is honestly the best e-reader that I have to date. What I love about it is that it is so comfortable to hold, the warm light feature, and how crisp the display looks while reading on the device. I’ve only read one book on it, but I can already tell that it is worth the money.

Waffle Shirt: Catherine June inspired this purchase, and it is honestly one of the most comfy shirts I purchased to date online. I purchased the plum color, and it’s gorgeous with leggings and jeans. I did get the extra-large, and it fits oversized enough where it covers me, but doesn’t wash me out. If you’re looking for a comfy and warm shirt, than this one is great.

Enamel Tile Bracelet: I saw this on Moriah Robinson’s YouTube channel, and I am so obsessed with it. I’ve mentioned it in this week’s What I Love Wednesday, and I am still loving this bracelet today. I have the gold and white one, which works wonderfully for mixing metals since I flip flop from silver to gold to rose gold. I really love this for anyone, and this will make a wonderful gift.

Gallon Water Bottle: One of the things that I struggle with is drinking enough water. I purchased this gallon water bottle because not only does it hold more than enough water to get me through the work day, it also motivates me to drink it. Half of the time, I honestly don’t, but it’s something to aspire to.

Phone/Watch Chargestand: They had this stand on sale during Prime Day and I actually purchased one for myself and one for my boyfriend. I put them up on our nightstand to help reduce clutter, and it was honestly the best thing I ever did. I like it that I can leave my Apple Watch charging on it all night, and that I have a place to put my phone as well. You can charge your Airpods on this as well, which is really cool. I do want to point out that this does not support wireless charging, which is honestly fine with me because I don’t care to do wireless charging at this stage of my phone’s life. I honestly really am enjoying this purchase, and can see myself getting one to use as a phone stand at the office as well.

iPhone 11 Pro Cases: I am obsessed with these phone cases. I got one prior to Prime Day, and two more on that day since they were only $6. These cases have everything that I love in a phone case. First, it protects it extremely well. Let me tell you, I’ve dropped my phone with this on it so many times, only for it to be just fine. Secondly, it also is a cute case. I have the two marble prints and am currently using the leopard print ones.

So, those are my Amazon favorites for the month. Be sure to stay tuned to check out next month’s favorites.

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Blogtober Day 24: Boyfriend Gift Guide

Let’s face it, folks. Holiday shopping season is here. I have already completed half of my shopping, so I think that I am doing well for myself. That said, I want to talk to you about the hardest person that is on my list – my boyfriend. For me, I always have the hardest time picking out gifts for him. This is especially true as the years went on, because I feel like I have already gotten him something like that, and I need to venture out into new territory. However, I’ve figured out a few great ideas for you to gift your special guy this holiday season – whether you’ve been together for a month, a year or many years. Trust me, he’ll love it.

Amazon Gift Card:

It seems as though everyone is shopping on Amazon more than ever before. What I like about giving Amazon gift cards is that it’s pretty much an easy way to give someone something that they love. I mean seriously. You can find anything pretty much on Amazon. Therefore, giving him this giftcard is a way to put some money towards something that he will love.

Sports/Music Merch:

My boyfriend loves the Red Sox and the Browns. Needless to say, it’s become a bit of a go-to to give him something with their logos/colors on them. That said, if there is a band, a television show, team, or anything that your guy loves, I am pretty sure you can find something with it on it.

Gift Card to His Favorite Place:

This is a great option to couples who have just started dating. If there is a place that he gets his morning coffee, why not get him a gift card? Or, if he has a regular lunch spot, why not buy a gift card there? This is a great idea, because it not only shows that you listen, but it’s guaranteed to be something that he enjoys.

Kindle/tech:

If your boyfriend likes to read, why not buy him an e-reader? Or, if he likes to listen to music, why not get him a smart speaker or a pair of headphones? Or, if he wears an Apple Watch, why not get him a band? There are so many different things you can do with this depending on the person, and trust me, he will love it.

Water Bottles:

I don’t know about you, but I always think that these are a great gift for anyone because hydration is really important!

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Blogtober Day 23: Ways To Take Yourself on A Date

Whether you’re single or in a relationship, we all need time for ourselves. One of the things that I learned before getting into a relationship is that you need to get used to taking time out to take you on a date, and make the time for yourself to do so. For me, it’s the ultimate form of self care.

Now, it’s not as fancy as I’m trying to make it sound. It can be a variety of things. That said, here are some great ways to take time out for you.

  • Go out for a mani/pedi: This might be hard to do during the current pandemic, but getting your nails done is the ultimate way to relax and make time for you.
  • Go to an event that you enjoy: Sometimes, there are events that you can’t find someone to go with you, whether it’s because no one is free or because they aren’t interested. However, instead of not going, why not go by yourself? I have gone to so many book signings by myself and it honestly is the best. It puts you in the best mood because you are doing something you enjoy, and you may just meet some cool people.
  • Grab a coffee: Prior to COVID, I would bring my e-reader to a coffee shop and sit and read. Now, I make a latte with my Nespresso. Whatever the case may be, grab a coffee and just chill.
  • Go shopping: Every now and then, we all can use a solo shopping trip — whether it’s from Target or to the mall. Therefore, why not make it a day? Get some lunch. Grab a Starbucks drink. Whatever the case may be, just going out and treating yourself is honestly the best.
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Blogtober Day 22: 5 Amazing Places in New Haven County To Hike This Fall Season

I love hiking especially in the fall. One of my favorite parts about living in Connecticut is the fact that we have the fall foliage this time of year. And, let’s be honest — Connecticut has so many different and unique places to enjoy that foliage. Since the pandemic, I’ve been really trying to do a lot more walking and hiking.

Today, I am talking about some great places for anyone in the New Haven, Connecticut area to hike. I want to preface it by saying that it doesn’t account for every place that you can hike in the area. These are just the places that I enjoy and want to share with you.

Sleeping Giant State Park in Hamden:

This park has been my go-to for years. Hamden is my hometown, and I love hiking this trail. Now, I have never hiked this during the fall, but this trail is amazing to hike during all seasons.

Osborndale State Park in Derby:

I recently discovered this while waiting for my car to be fixed. This place is extremely gorgeous. It has a beautiful lake, but also a lot of space to hold events. I haven’t really explored it, but it’s definitely a great place to visit.

Hubbard Park in Meriden:

I love this park, but like Sleeping Giant, I have not visited this park in the fall, but when I did, it was gorgeous. What I love about this spot is that you have a ton of great views, and then you can take a trail to Castle Craig. I highly recommend checking it out.

Eisenhower Park in Milford:

I really love this park in the fall. I have hiked it recently and loved exploring. It is a great place to see foliage, and go for a fall walk. And, if you live in Milford, the dog park is right next store.

East Rock Park in New Haven:

Last but not least, I wanted to shoutout my favorite park in the area. I love East Rock because the summit is absolutely amazing, because of the view. You can actually see up to Long Island Sound, which is incredible — especially with the fall colors.

So, these are some great places to hike in New Haven county. Where is your favorite place to hike?

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Blogtober Day 21: What I Love Wednesday October 21

Happy Wednesday everyone! I can’t believe that the week is halfway over already. I am so happy to be into the home stretch of Blogtober. While I am enjoying the chance to connect with other bloggers, I am ready to slow down with the blogging for a bit. That said, I am still so excited to share some of my favorites this week. So, without further adue, here are this week’s favorites.

Kindle Oasis: I have had my eye on this since May, but $300 for an ereader was just not happening. I decided to hold off and wait until Prime Day to purchase it. I am so glad that I did, as it was marked down $80. I’ve only had the Kindle since Friday, but I’m absolutely loving it. I love the larger screen, the page turning buttons, and it honestly fits so comfortably in my hands. If you’re looking for an ereader, I highly recommend this one.

Emily in Paris: So, in the span of two days, I binged watched this. This is surprising, because I never binge watch shows that often. But, there was something about this one. It is about Emily Cooper, a twenty something who is successful in marketing and has to travel to Paris for work. She leaves behind her culture, and her boyfriend who she tries to do the distance with. While the show is completely unrealistic, I am beyond obsessed with it. There is drama, a love triangle, and friendship. It’s definitely worth the binge, and I seriously hope that they renew it for a second season.

Chevron Bracelet: I mentioned this in yesterday’s post, but I am obsessed with this bracelet. It was only $10 on Amazon and is perfect for layering on your wrists. I got it on Sunday and I’ve worn it pretty much every day since. I like it that it goes with both silver and gold, since I can never seem to pick a side, and the quality is amazing.

Thriller Novels: It must be the spooky season, but I have been in the ultimate spooky mood as of late. This has translated in my reading taste as well. I’ve read one horror novel, The Southern Book Club’s Guide to Slaying Vampires by Grady Hendrix, and three thrillers, including You Are Not Alone by Greer Hendricks and Sarah Pekkanen, The Woman in the Window by A.J. Finn, and The Guest List by Lucy Foley. What I love about these types of books is that they are the type that you just can’t put down because you need to know what happens next. This is perfect if you’re in a reading slump. I am currently reading Reputation by Sara Shepard, and hope to finish a few more before the end of the month.

Bath and Body Works Champagne Toast Body Spray: I was finally able to get into Bath and Body works everyone. Needless to say, I went a little crazy because I knew between the current pandemic restrictions as well as the holidays coming up, it would be challenging to get a chance unless I went early in the morning. They had a special where it was buy 3 get two free, I had a ton of coupons, and it was a good deal. I fell in love with this scent after testing out the body lotion and knew I wanted the spray too. I’ve been wearing this body spray since I got it and I’ve been loving it. It smells kind of like a perfume, but a bit lighter. I really recommend checking it out.

What are your favorites this week? Let me know in the comments below.

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Blogtober Day 20: My Favorite Amazon Accessories

From Prime Day to just the overall COVID-19 pandemic, I’ve been purchasing so many different items off of Amazon that it’s not even funny. What has been drawing me into them has been simply how affordable everything is.

Recently, I dipped my toe into buying some of their jewelry, and have been surprised about how good the quality the pieces were. That said, I wanted to take a moment to talk about some of the pieces I’ve picked up in the past few weeks and have been really loving.

White Chevron and Gold bracelet: I received this in the mail on Sunday and I have not taken it off since. I actually saw this on a YouTuber that I liked, and since it was only $10, I decided to go for it. I’ve worn it with both my silver and gold jewelry and it works great. It does fit pretty snug, and I have an average wrist, so keep that in mind if you were to purchase it.

Initial Necklace: This pendent looks so much like the bracha one that it’s not even funny. I really like the pendant, because I am a sucker for all things initial related. However, I am really pleased because this piece is about $10 as well, and comes with a longer chain that is perfect for layering. The quality is pretty good and it’s a great value for the price.

Leather Apple Watch Band: I mentioned this in a What I Love Wednesday a few weeks back, and I really love this watch band. I love going to Amazon for all of my watchbands, because they have a great quality for an affordable price. I actually have three of these, and I swap them out depending on the day. I have not worked out with them on yet, but hope to soon.

Dome Ring: I love these dome rings, but I honestly really don’t want to pay the price for an expensive one. I found this one on Amazon for $12. I’ve washed my hands with this ring, and the plating has yet to come off. How cool is that? Furthermore, what I really enjoy is that it does not turn my finger green. I have sensitive fingers, and have constantly dealt with issues with that. This ring however? Not so much.

iPhone Cases: I think Amazon has become my one-stop shop for anything technology case related. I picked up this phone case in the white marble and have really been enjoying it. During Prime Day, I also purchased the leopard print and the purple marble as well. What I like about it is that it’s cute, but also durable. I drop my phone constantly, and this has managed to survive many falls. And, for the price, it’s honestly worth it.

Curb Chain Bracelet: I started with a bracelet and now I am ending with one too. I love this bracelet, and have been wearing it a ton. I love it because not only is it affordable, but the chain is really thick for the price. It is also easy to put on and off, which is even better. The chain bracelet trend is something that is continuing into the fall, and I am here for it. This bracelet is an affordable way to get into the trend.

So, that is it for my favorite Amazon accessories – thus far. Do you have any favorite Amazon purchases? Let me know in the comments below.

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Blogtober Day 19: Fall Date Ideas

Fall is the most aesthetically pleasing time of the year — especially if you live in New England. And, there are so many fun activities to do — activities that are perfect for date night.

That said, I want to preface my list by saying this — just because I say date doesn’t mean that it’s an activity for you and a significant other. It can be a fun and unique first date idea. It can even be a fun day to spend with your friends. No matter what, this is just a great way to get you out there and enjoy the season.

  • Bake something.

I love baking and there are so many fun fall desserts on Pinterest or even mixes at the grocery store. My personal favorite honestly is the Pillsbury Pumpkin cookies.

  • Go on a fall hike.

I love hiking and seeing all of the fun colors. Connecticut has some great places to go for a walk, and walking is honestly one of the best ways to spend some time together.

  • Spooky/Halloween movie marathon.

I’m not a fan of anything scary, but there are so many fun movies out there such as Hocus Pocus, It’s the Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown and Beetlejuice. So, just grab some popcorn and have a cozy night in.

  • Go to a pumpkin patch.

Pumpkin patches scream fall. End of story.

  • Go apple picking.

Apple picking is a great way to not only spend some time together, but it gets you a fun walk in and grab apples for baking pies.

What is your go to fall date? Let me know in the comments below.

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